Is it this…

or this…?

“If you keep doing what you have always been doing, you’ll keep getting what you’ve always been getting. If you want something different, you’re going to have to do something completely different!” 
~ Paul Watzlawick.

I know I have used this quote by PW before, but this is exactly it. Every time I look at it I get new inspiration, and sadly, out there I see so many people doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results, that I am compelled to use it again!

Trying to maintain the “status quo”, digging your heels in deep and resisting even the most minor changes only leads to more frustration in the long run. On the other hand continuous improvement and “skilling up” reflects great flexibility, adaptability and resilience no matter what. If you were a boss, which characteristics would you be looking for in an employee?

Confucius said something about a reed bending in the wind is stronger than an oak which breaks in a storm. Which one would you prefer to be? What would you look for in a friend, or partner?

It is our vested interest to support you as much as we can in your continuous improvement and development, and so to make the Skills and Language Training more accessible I am introducing Skype lessons, and another great offer through the Mnemo Academy which is proud to present the first English NLP Basic Seminar in October

> English NLP Basic Workshop, 19th and 20th October 2013 – view more info 

> SALT 1-to-1 Business English via Skype lessons you get:

• personal attention – one on one sessions
• to choose the times that best suit you
• the material or you can buy a recommended course book best for your needs
• homework – if you want
• to choose the topics and content want and need  such as topical issues, grammar, vocabulary, skills for meetings, presentations and negotiations, intercultural communication etc.
• to choose the duration of the session: 30 minutes @ €26 or 50 minutes@ €48 – buying a block of 10 units gets you a 5% discount

Before you start your 1-to-1 Skype Business English course I will conduct a free 15 minute Skype leveling session with you to establish your language needs and recommend the content of your Skype Business English course. It’s as easy as that!

Contact me by email at hester@salt-pro.com providing me with your full name, contact number, Skype name or ID with “SKYPE BE” in the subject line.

I look forward to seeing you on Skype, at the Mnemo Academy, or even at one of SALT’s very own courses or seminars! Have a great October and remember to remain curious!

Untranslatable words or just getting lost in translation?

I hope you‘ve had an awesome summer!

I‘ve just returned from a 6 week trip to my home country and sometimes when asked to describe my experiences it is hard to find one word that aptly describes it all. I also had an opportunity to conduct corporate in-house training for a diverse group of South Africans while there and periodically observed mild misunderstandings in communication even though we all speak the same language. Have I been out of my own woods for too long? Have I mixed in European (or Austrian) cultural “trees” into my own communication? Do my fellow South Africans have another understanding of the same words?

Friedrich Nietzsche quoted, “Words are but symbols for the relations of things to one another and to us; nowhere do they touch upon the absolute truth.”

So true! Knowing this, and understanding “the map is not the territory” (a presupposition from the study of NLP) is so important if you want to achieve clarity and connectivity in your communication.
The relationship between words and what they mean when sharing a common language or when a language is shared by non-native speakers, is and has been a fascinating and very complex one. Linguists and other experts have spent a lot of time analysing, and coming up with theories as to why there are so many feelings and ideas that differ so vastly and why we sometimes cannot “find the right words”.

I know. I have had many interesting, albeit lengthy discussions with writers or speakers when trying to find a word which would best describe the emotion, fact, idea, value they are trying to express. There are words which our languages simply cannot identify or translate. Like “Waldeinsamkeit”*. We can only describe it in a sentence which (also) evokes different interpretations! Ralph Waldo Emerson even wrote a poem on “Waldeinsamkeit”.

Remember, you are not “alone in the wood”s when it comes to any communication and language needs you may have, and I look forward to supporting you. I wish you success!

PS.
Returning home is the most difficult part of long-distance hiking; You have grown outside the puzzle and your piece no longer fits.
— Cindy Ross

I go to nature to be soothed and healed, and to have my senses put in order.
— John Burroughs

Adventure is a path. Real adventure – self-determined, self-motivated, often risky – forces you to have firsthand encounters with the world. The world the way it is, not the way you imagine it.
— Mark Jenkins

Inspiration and images taken from Maptia Blog and Huffington Post
*Definition: Waldeinsamkeit

Why not?

While working with some young and very talented project managers a few days ago, I posed the following question: „If there was absolutely nothing to stand in your way, and money played no role, what job would you be doing”? I got very different answers  and the jobs mentioned were not what the  PJ’s are currently doing . It made me worry, and think of Einstein.

I understand there are times when you just have to do what you have to do; like earn a salary to pay bills, go on summer holidays and do fun things like skills and language courses at SALT . The thing is to stay focussed on who you want to be and what you want to become and not get lost in external and internal “noise”. Carry on dreaming and scheming – or risk becoming a grammatical expert in conditionals (“if I had known what I know now, I would have…” or “I wish I had done XYZ when…” or “If only I had…”).

We waste too much time and energy fretting about challenges we might have to face at some unknown point in the future or about the mistakes we have made, or trying to live up to others’ expectations – and not pleasing anyone including ourselves . Isn’t it time to stop deferring what you want most? You possess everything you need to move into your unknown and to succeed. You lack nothing. All you have to do is dream, scheme and then commit. Your success will be in direct proportion to your commitment.

“If your mind can conceive it; and your heart can believe it – then you can achieve it!”  Muhammed Ali

Why not do an NLP Basic Seminar which the Mnemo Academy in Vienna will be hosting? Why not do a Skills or Language course at SALT?

The extra tricks and fun come at no additional cost and the seminars will definitely help you move closer to your dream! Are you ready?

As always,

PS: “What if ” is limiting. “Why not” is limitless.

Try this simple little exercise: Take a look at the various quotes on this page and then ask yourself “Why?“. “Why change?” . Then ask yourself “Why not?” Simply that. You’ll be amazed at how energising and inspiring two words can be.

Grammar and English “found” in translation…

On the plane last week to Germany I read the FT…

start again…

On the way to Germany last week while I was reading the FT on the plane I …

start again…

I was browsing through the Financial Times on the plane to Germany last week, and came across the article “Grammar is a vital tool for any executive”. It grabbed my attention!

In my work I almost always get requests for “conversation” English, or “small talk” English: “not too much focus on grammar please”. And then, when we get to “conversing” and making “small talk”, I am graced with incorrect language and phrase usage.

The FT article confirms the need for grammar; to do a little more than just “small talk”. Grammar is important. Grammar is the SALT and pepper, the spices and the herbs, the oils and the wine – grammar is like the unseen ingredients which turn a meal, into an extraordinary fusion of flavours! Grammar, with select vocabulary, is that which turns language into a beautiful symphony of spoken sound. Grammar is that which turns everything we say into clarity – clearly constructed communication. If you’re an executive, professional or student, you need to report. You need to know about indirect and passive speech forms. That is grammar. Find the FT article here.

Do you want to join me for some grammar coaching or for a reporting seminar?

After the FT, I flipped through the pages of the Austrian Airlines in-flight magazine. A few articles needed my going over the titles/captions a second time because it just didn’t read, in English, what it should. “Osteopaths and chiropracters will be pleased” vs. “Alle Osteopathen und Chiropraktiker freuen sich” or “It gets well into the calves” vs “Das geht schön in die Wadln” and here the best “Go away calmly” vs. “Beruhigt verreisen” are just more examples of the fact that grammar and most (idiomatic) expressions cannot be translated from German (worse still Austrian) to English, word for word. I’m going to offer my translation and language training services to Austrian Airlines!

If you feel like having a go at the translation you are welcome to send them in and if you want to know what they should be, contact me! Language is so much more than just words – and a whole lot of fun!

Wishing everyone a beautiful month of May!

As always,

Explanation: To “know your shit” is the colloquial way of saying you’re an expert – you know what you’re doing, saying and talking about. The other is knowing you’re not and it is time you contact us at SALT for some grammar coaching and a reporting seminar! 

New, inspiring, simple and extraordinary things!

February and March were busy AND fabulously inspirational!

Last week I heard that a French software company had just launched a new social software which allows for a novel dimension in business service – namely “face to face” service – reducing emailing and allowing for more person to person contact.

I am extremely excited about this development! Trainers have been up against companies and institutes offering e-learning and virtual classroom solutions to HR and training departments for too long. These “self-learning” applications and programs certainly have a valid list of benefits (especially for companies on big cost cutting and saving initiatives) – but these programs remove and lack a truly essential component – real time interaction and inspiration which supports hands on implementation.

I am so looking forward to reliving this “new” touchy-feely-fun-face-to-face learning direction, which endorses my earlier message about simple activities being turned into extraordinary events by doing them with the right people.

Earlier I went home to fulfill a dream – to visit a crash (herd) of rhinoceros (Naashorn) at the Palala Rhino Sanctuary in South Africa. I spent days “just being” with these magnificent animals who are rapidly becoming extinct as a result of rhino horn demand from Asia in their natural environment. A truly inspirational experience of “simple things – an early morning walk in the bush – made extraodinary” – because of the presence of rhino. Here’s an account of my time with the Palala rhinos.

We have just celebrated Easter, which always delivers reflective yet inspirational messages – good for everyday use. Check out this Easter inspiration!

And finally here my belated “Happy Birthday” to all my March birthday-bodies. May your new year be filled with simple things turned into extraordinary events!

See you at one of our Skills or Language seminars soon. I guarantee you a simple thing like improving your language proficiency will be made extraordinary at SALT!

As always, best wishes

“Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful, committed citizens can change the world”.